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Posted on 4th Aug 2010 @ 3:33 AM

Children grow up to 3,4 years old, began to show the general characteristics of their personality. Some kids do something quick and neat, smart, but lack of patience, the same as a small rabbit; some kids slow to offer, but insist on strong, like a step by step the small turtle.
Ascertain the child's personality in a baby rabbit or a turtle baby, parents may wish to prescribe the right medicine for children with different personalities launch different educational.

Impetuous Temperament– "Rabbit" baby's education law
Such children generally have a clever mind, and with the same age when children can be evident in the characteristics of agile and flexible, and from many small partnerships stand out. But they have a fatal flaw, it is the lack of endurance.
Baby rabbits do things generally can not be sustained, such as playing with toys always play a losing one, attention is also very easy to spread, if there is any sound, they were quickly able to attract in the past. Primary partners in and get along, they also show most of the bad is not gregarious or aggressive tendencies.
For this type of impatient children, if we do not mind tuning, is likely to develop a class sit still, easily deserted poor students. Therefore, the education of these babies may pay attention to the three rules.
Rule 1: conscious of its mandatory endurance training
Endurance exercise training can begin. For example: provision period of time each day dedicated to a sport. For younger children, running is the preferred way.
Jogging over 4 years of basic suited to all healthy children, of course, the specific implementation will have to set according to the specific situation of the child's physical training time and intensity, but parents must insist that only perseverance in order to achieve the desired results.
Rule 2: The way a child might be interested in the specific culture of their work
Distraction is a vexing problem, a child, even clever, but if things do not concentrate, can not have great success.
Increased attention should first start with their interests, such as younger child who likes playing games, then parents, then they should seize competitive in child psychology, by continuously go on from strength to improve their attention.
Some children also like to draw, or read, parents can work to extend these methods to cultivate children's time to forget them around in the interest of the interference, thereby improving attention.
Rule 3: to give appropriate incentives
Baby rabbit is generally more a lack of patience on something, if not, you can easily give up, including playing games, too. Therefore, parents must be based on the actual situation at this time, select the game quite difficult children or housework, and encourage the child, the child goes wrong, try not to blame and fought.
In addition, parents should pay attention to control the time, let the children work and rest, to keep children's interest in things.
Phlegmatic Temperament – "turtle" baby's education law
These babies are not the mind is not intelligent, but some patience calm behavior and action, slower reactions, the relative baby rabbit was a little slow for the development of a number.
Research found that parents can use as long as the correct way to train (not too much rap, not compared with peers), then most of them early on than to show the kind of magical talent of the child to grow up better.
Chronic child who rarely lost his temper, get along with others is also very cordial, but shy, not talkative, a big flaw in their. If not properly set-up and guidance, they will faint from the surrounding atmosphere, smell the atmosphere of exclusion, and then to show withdrawal, or even more eccentric tendencies.
Rule 1: the magical effect of encouraging
Encouraging is the best remedy. Like a flower growing, they need to be warm sunshine, gentle rain, rather than take the lead in the sun or storm.
As within, so these children tend to be more sensitive, not as cheerful baby rabbits, relatively speaking, to stand against. What do they like in my heart, and finally slowly into a knot, can not be removed.
Therefore, to encourage and focus to help rebuild the confidence of the baby to gain strength and courage to cope with life's setbacks.
Rule 2: let go and let him work, and train its speed
How to improve a child to do things quicker? Parents must bear in mind that children do one thing in command before, be sure to clarify the rules to them, This includes the time agreed.
Allow them to be completed within the established time established things so that they understand not do a good job of on-line, but must be completed within a specified time be considered qualified.
In addition, parents can also try the reward system, that is, complete with prizes, otherwise fine, this approach to improving children's enthusiasm, is quite effective.
Rule 3: Multi-take him to public places, with people encouraged him to
Encourage the education of such exchanges is an important rule baby, we all know, with people not only enjoy it, but also access to knowledge, information and other resources.
An early age the child to adapt to public places, make friends, their future growth and life absolutely advantageous.