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Posted on 21st Jun 2010 @ 1:21 AM

1. Conducive to the health of baby
If the baby sleep with their parents, especially sleep in the middle of parents, it will cause some damage to the healthy baby although it is convenient to care of the baby. The parents may press the baby carelessly if baby sleep in the middle of adults and around with the thick full of clothing. And adults will sleep filled with exhaled carbon dioxide which around the baby all night, so baby will get less fresh air, then with a disturbed sleep , nightmares and night crying phenomena. It is also easy to transmit the pathogens to the baby if parents sleep with baby in a blanket. Sometimes parents turning over their body or moving which will wake up the baby, then affect the quality of sleep. So it is benefit to let baby sleep alone.

2. Conducive to cultivate inner independence of baby
Whether the baby with inner independence is a important indicator of self-awareness. Research shows that children's independence is from form to content, the form means the visible and tangible behavior of child, and the content is the child's heart. Let your children sleep alone at correct age which is conducive to develop the independence and ability if self-care for baby, and also contribute to psychological maturity. Baby being in alone or without adults’ assistance can do many things, such as play or talk with himself / herself. And avoid a over-dependence on their parents after grow up and feel lonely in the future. The experience of alone at childhood will help them adapt to the surrounding environment quickly in the future.
3. Conducive to the promotion of relations between husband and wife
Family life has shifted to focus on the baby after the baby born, and many of which were around the baby. As a result, communication between husband and wife, sharing and mutual care much less than before. It is tired to care the baby sleeping at night, there have no enough time for husband and wife to communicate with each other. This will affect the goodwill as between spouses.
4. To avoid the formation of Electra or Oedipus complex
It is able to distinguish gender for 3 years old children. They have the initial gender awareness, and the mental development at an important stage. If let children sleep with their parents as before, that maybe breed a potential Oedipus or Electra complex. This will lead baby in a lack of self-love and self-discipline in the future, and even the formation of sexual identification disorder.